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Announcing the date for Amanda's memorial service



This Sunday, July 24, 2016, at the Civic Gardens complex in London, Ontario, we'll all get to say goodbye to Amanda. If you can't make be here in person, I will attempt to set up an Internet feed so those from away can join in.

Her obituary, which ran this past weekend in London and Halifax, and will run in Kirkland Lake as well:
Amanda Simpson (nee Yateman) died at home in London, Ontario on July 12, 2016 at the age of 37, after a long battle with ovarian cancer.
Amanda is survived by husband Scott and their son Gordon. Daughter of Barbara Derbyshire, step daughter of Wendall Clifford, sister to Amy and Ruth. She is preceded in death by father Gary Yateman.
Amanda was born on October 3, 1978 in Kirkland Lake, Ontario. She graduated from University of Toronto in 2001 with a Bachelor of Science, then from McMaster University in 2003 with a Bachelor of Social Work. She moved to Halifax, Nova Scotia where she worked for the provincial government as a child protection social worker. Amanda married Scott Simpson in 2009 and gave birth to Gordon William Simpson in 2013. The family moved to London in 2014 to be near loved ones as Amanda fought cancer.
Amanda requested cremation, which is being handled by Woodland Cemetery & Crematorium in London. Details on a celebration of her life will be announced soon. Donations to Ovarian Cancer Canada at http://www.ovariancanada.org/ would be appreciated.

For the dozens and dozens of people who've reached out online and in person to extend their condolences -- thank you. For those who wonder if there's something you can do to help -- there is, and I'll share it here and on Facebook soon. Amanda's sudden (though expected) exit from our lives left some unfinished projects, and I have an idea for something that will help Gordon and I through the years. I think you can be part of it.

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  1. Thank you for sharing this information, Scott. I hadn't seen Amanda in years (and thus you and I have never met), but she was such an important person to me, and always will be. I am thinking of you, Gordon, and your family, and will see you on Sunday.

    Jessie

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  2. My condolences
    Amanda must be strong
    RIP Adam
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