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Barger's Law redux

I told you last summer about Jorn Barger's "Inverse Law of Usenet Bandwidth" that states: "The more interesting your life becomes, the less you post... and vice versa."

I was reminded of this today when I noticed that there've been no posts here since last week's Fun Friday.

So, what's new?

I think we've pretty much locked in the wedding date for October 10, 2009 at the Saraguay Club on Halifax's Northwest Arm.

And we've been home-shopping. We have an agent and a mortgage broker hustling to get us a kick-ass rate (currently looking at about 5.55% -- is that good?).

We're in for a nasty snowstorm tonight. About a foot of snow, lots of wind, bleh ick gross.

Not to build expectations, but I'm doing the gym thing again. Weights and cardio, lifting and running, sweating and glowing. Amanda's at it, too. I'm on indefinite hiatus from taekwondo, as I've lost my mojo, my membership was up, I can't afford it, and any other excuse that equates to requiring a change of pace.

Hey, why not subscribe? That way you don't have to keep coming back here, and you'll never miss a post.

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  1. i don't keep up with the money guys, but your proposed mortgage rate doesn't sound outrageous to me, if that's any help :)

    hope you survived the snowstorm!

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  2. Scott - Thanks for the vote of confidence and the link.

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